What I like, what I don’t, who I talk to, who I don’t – this should depend on my choice or someone else’s choice. The question is related to my self-respect and my freedom. I don’t know why people expect me to adopt a lifestyle according to their wishes, to dance like a puppet on their command as they say, to stand up when they say stand up, to sit when they say sit, to drink tea when they say drink tea. To drink water even when I’m not thirsty if they say drink water.
After all, I must have my own wishes too, I must have my own perspective too, the perspective with which I want to live, I must have the desire to live according to that perspective. But nobody thinks about me, everyone I see is busy dissecting my behavior. Just yesterday I was playing cricket in the field. The toss happened, I lost the toss. Winning and losing isn’t anything new in games, right? Whether you win the toss or the match, whether you lose the toss or the match, what difference does it make.
But there are some people who consider winning the toss as a prelude to winning the match. In the sports field, the game begins with demonstrating sportsmanship. It’s said that first shake hands with the opposing player, then show your skill in the game. I’m rational. I don’t want to follow every tradition until I weigh that tradition on the scale of logic. I lost the toss and didn’t shake hands with the opposing team’s captain, I won the match and still didn’t shake hands with the opposing team’s players. People started talking about that.
In sports and life, shaking hands depends on our choice
It’s too much, it seems like nobody is sad about their own sorrows. They only have to keep an eye on others’ behavior – when someone shook hands with whom and when they withdrew their hand, when someone looked at someone with affection and when they averted their gaze. When someone insulted whom, when someone respected whom. Actually, time is powerful, you never know when it makes someone insult and when it makes
